Blog #3

    When I was 15 years old, I met a girl, she was my classmate. Her name is Meng. Soon I fell in love with her. One month later, Meng became my girlfriend by my chasing after her. From then on, we went along with each other every day. Every day after class I bought her snacks. We wrote letter everynight and exchanged the letter on the next day. We went out together by bicycle at weekend. During that time, my life was all about her.
     The things mentioned above is not the most important, the most important thing I want to say is that when Meng became my girlfriend, I almost forgot Peng who was my best friend. Before I knew Meng, I played with Peng every day. We had nothing to say. Academically, he is smarter than me, so every time I met a problem that I could not do, Peng always helped me in time. While in daily life, I am more creative than him. I often discovered some interesting things in which we could enjoy. Nevertheless, when Meng showed up, everything had changed. every time Peng came to see me, I used many kinds of excuses to refused his invitation of amusement, instead, I was on the phone with Meng or amused with her. This situation happened for many times. Gradually, Peng stoped coming for me.
    At one time, I quarreled with Meng, then we did not talk with each other. I was very angry, I wanted someone to talk to, I thought of Peng at that moment, but suddenly I realized that I had not actively contact with him for 3 months. I was much ashamed. At night, I plucked up my courage to ring him up. When  he answered the phone, he said "Asshole, you finally think of me!" At that moment, I knew that I almost lose my best friend.
    According to this thing, I had grown a lot. I learned one can not be too selfish, and we can not live up to the people who like you.

Blog #2

        Rome wasn't built in a day, in Chinese culture, there are other two sentences having the same meaning with it: the first is that three-foot ice is not formed in a cold day. The second is that taking a bite can not be a fat man. All of the three sentences mean that the most important character for reaching a goal is insistence. Insistence means never give up. Doing a same thing everyday is very diffiicult and boring, but when you stick to it, you will have a unexpected gains.
        Take me as an example, when l was a sophomore, I am a fat man about 200 pounds. Every one doesn't like me, they did not want to make friends with me. More unfortunately, in the 3000 meters running fainl exam of sports I failed and did not pass the exam. I am dispirited and inferior all the day at that time. Every time I looked at myself in the mirror, even I hated myself. I thought it is time to make some changes. From then on, I went to the nearest GYM from my house everyday and I setted a goal of running 5000 meters each day and losing 40 pounds. In the first few days, 5000 meters seemed to be a mountain pressing me. When I was running on the treadmill, the meters I had run increased slowly, yet I felt more and more difficult to breathe. That moment I want to give up, but when I thought myself in the mirror and failure in the sports exam, I choose to insist. One week passed, a month went by, 1 year passed and 2 years passed. Finally, In the summer in 2014, I lost almost 45 pounds. I substituted my shirt for T-shirt, suit pants instead of sport pants. I got dressed up. I regained my confidence. The most important point is that I won the championship in the running of company. At at moment, I thought the sweat of these years was worth it.